Over the past couple days I have been extremely sick. Never before hit this level of omg I may die. Called in to work for the first time in my life.
It’s just a cold. Kinda. It’s a cold that has made it so that if my eyes aren’t facing straight ahead I feel pain. My whole body aches at every joint. It’s just the worse cold I’ve ever experienced and to be honest I didn’t know they could get this bad.
Not only is it terrible but the timeline from me feeling healthy to being run over by a truck was under 12 hours. Aka I went to bed and the next morning I was Death incarnate.
Now this leads me to Hippie Magic. I work at a healthy living grocery store. And I’ll be honest I don’t really believe in a lot of the stuff. Soy free, gluten free, sugar free etc…
However right now I am desperate and needed to try anything to feel better and maybe not cough up a lung in the process.
So a friend of mine recommended one of their products called “Get Over It”. I sprayed the recommended 4 squirts into my mouth cringing at the taste. Swallowed and not five minutes later was breathing normally.
As someone who really didn’t put a lot of stock in that kind of stuff, my very foundational belief towards it is being changed. So now I’m taking a closer look with a more open mind. It just made me feel so much better and I can hardly believe it. Must be some kind of Hippie Magic.
I can hardly imagine that so much time has passed to quickly since the last time I was on this account. It only took me seven attempts and a couple arguments with the log in screen to gain access.
Since the last time I was on here a few big changes have occurred.
My wife and I left our home state far behind and are now living in Minnesota. While yes people say that it is colder here that is indeed not the case. Average temperatures say it is colder in Nebraska. So glad we moved!
The second thing is that we adopted two cats from a feline rescue. They are siblings from a Horder house in North Dakota. While very cute and loving they aren’t going to be pleased with me today because they have a vet appointment.
I no longer work for a University instead I am now a manager in the grocery industry. Most people feel like that’s a step backwards but it pays more and my time off is better. Also my benefits are better.
I dropped out of my Masters program. I’d been in school for 19 years straight. I was tired and just simply done.
My wife has continued working for Quality Inn but is looking for a new job since her current employment situation could only be described as interesting.
I think that’s a good first post back and we will see where this goes. Thank you for reading, have a great day.
It is a cool and rather wet day outside of my apartment. One of those days that really tells you to just stay inside and enjoy life. My wife who had to go to work this morning came back inside and confirmed my suspicions, “I am going to avoid going outside”, when she placed her -20 hands on my back.
The way that my day is looking is that I am going to work on my World of Darkness campaign for the show Stranger Things. Right now I am working on how to make it different enough from the show that people who watched the show cannot just insta-win because they know everything.
I am also going to work on some team compositions for my friends who play League of Legends because as a team we would like to do some climbing in ranked. I for one am excited but first we will see if my efforts are worth the time.
More than likely I will finish my day by playing Dead by Daylight and trying to earn some more blood points to upgrade The Trapper because he is only level 10 right now. I need him to be much higher level for the Halloween event that I am hosting.
So a new product came to kickstarter recently and for months the company has been building hype on Facebook. My wife is not a fan of what I think is an adorable toy for a 23 year old adult male, but what does she know?
I am so excited for this that I really would like to pledge the $750 and get all four of these amazing looking things. However I am also pretty sure my wife would kill me if I did that since we are planning on having our wedding reception in February.
In any case if you are looking for a personal assistant that also have a personality I highly recommend checking this out.
I think many people have a friend like the one I am about to describe. A friend whose negativity is what they are known for. A person who is living a fairly good life but somehow manages to be the absolute catalyst for feelings of negativity.
I have several friends who fall into this category, whether that is just who I seem to attract as friends or simply because I live on a college campus.
There is some variations between them and in how they are negative.
For example I am going to start with J. J is a high functioning individual who has been dating the same girl for five years. He lives comfortably in a house with his girlfriend and best friend. They all work and pay rent no problem. For the most part J plays video games about 30+ hours a week on top of working about 30 hours a week. Logging hundreds of hours into games of course he is very good at them.
Now J thinks that it is fun to introduce his friends to the same games he plays and then proceeds to tell everyone that plays with him how they are “garbage” and “trash” because they don’t know the current meta for every item in the game or the best things to do. The icing on the cake is if you introduce him to a game and therefore you have the upperhand due to practice, the game itself must be crap.
Another type of negative friend are those who have no belief in themselves at all. I have two friends who I see every single day and play games with regularly. S and C both function on this idea that they are worth less than the ground they walk on. C believes that he is incapable of anything and that he really is just a waste of oxygen. S has a little more self confidence then that but she has also started drinking heavily and falling into a different pit of despair.
It is hard being around such negativity all the time and sometimes a person just needs a break. For me I play games with my wife and with the last two people I mentioned plus other friends, for reasons the first person mentioned does not reduce stress when playing games with them.
My wife and I got married this summer at a courthouse because we wanted to save money and because it would allow us to live together sooner. Where I work for a University the policy of not having someone of a different gender than you is strict. Though this is being changed soon.
At first our parents assumed that the only reasons were because she must be pregnant and we are getting married for that reason. Not the case in fact she isn’t pregnant. Well now our parents are just confused by why would we get married in such a weird way where only two friends were present for the actual vows.
We are having a reception this coming February where people can come and see us as a sort of way for us to still partially hold to tradition. Though my mother keeps thinking that Tori will walk down the isle at this event no matter how many times I explain it will just be a reception.
With this whole event happening Tori and I are working on figuring out how we are paying for everything and just how much does stuff really cost.
$900 for her dress.
$650 for the rings.
$900 for food.
$600 for the venue.
$450 for everything else.
This comes out to be right around $3,500 and I am thinking to myself that this is a lot to spend on a single day. I then find out from the custodian in my building that her wedding cost $20,000.
All I could do was look at her in absolute amazement. Why spend so much on a single day of your life? Arguably one that for the overall scheme of things is not that important. It is an important day but is it as important as the birth of your first child, besides hospital bills I don’t see parents spending near the extravagance for such a momentous event.
I know that I won’t even be spending $3,000 on the day my first child is born, but maybe I should. Why is getting married more important on a single day than the birth of a child when they both are things that you will carry with you for life.
Last night I was very bored and just sitting at home waiting for my wife to come home from work. Her average day is her waking up at 6 AM to go to work from 6:30-8:30 AM, then she sleeps again so she can go to work from 3-11 PM. Her work schedule really prevents her from getting to do a lot of fun things with myself of friends.
So last night I decided to stay up way to late and wait for her because we haven’t really seen each other for a couple days. I mean we share a bed but our schedules make it so that there is nothing more than we sleep in the same place.
We decide to make a Walmart run because well why not. We get there and start looking around and one of the things that catch my eyes is a desk that I have had on my amazon wishlist for about a month is on sale in Walmart.
Well I then had to put the thing together at midnight cause why wouldn’t you play with your new toy. At around 1 AM I had my new desk put together and my computer in place on the desk. Now today I will get to take the whole system for a spin.
Moral of the story, “Go to Walmart at 11:30 PM and goodish things will happen”.